Subtly Anxious
3 Piece Bundle: MILLIE - kids 18k gold fidget rings | For anxious little hands
3 Piece Bundle: MILLIE - kids 18k gold fidget rings | For anxious little hands
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✅ Free shipping Australia & NZ
✅ 30-day no-questions refund
✅ 12-month warranty
✅ 4.9★ from 412 reviews
✅ Ships from Brisbane
Can you afford to let your child's anxiety continue to disrupt their life? School refusal, sleepless nights, and headaches are more than just inconveniences; they're a significant loss of quality time and happiness. Our discreet fidget rings offer a gentle way to support your child in managing their anxiety, helping them regain focus and enjoy school and life more fully.
Stack them together or wear them separately. Imagine your child confidently going to school, sleeping soundly, and free from headaches. Our kids fidget rings offer a discreet way to help manage anxiety, leading to a happier, healthier, and more engaged child. Don't let anxiety rob your family of precious moments – empower your child today.
🏫 Includes a school anxiety card — accepted at schools with no jewellery policies
We’re mindful that many schools don’t allow jewellery at school. Each ring comes with an anxiety card, to give to the school. Our specially designed rings aims to provide a sense of security and support to children during hard times. Empowering children to manage their emotions with confidence and comfort. They’re subtle enough to be able to wear to school.
Encourage your child to wear their fidget ring whenever they need to. Whether it's during school hours, social activities, or even bedtime routines, Subtly Anxious rings provide a comforting presence to support your child's emotional wellbeing.
Buying for someone you love?
This is the gift that says: "I see you. I know it's hard. I've got you."
Arrives in a beautiful gift box, ready to give — no wrapping needed. Adjustable fit means you don't need to know their ring size. Perfect for someone managing anxiety, ADHD, or just a lot right now.
Materials
18k gold plated on s925 sterling silver base (adjustable fit in kids)
Not sure of your child's size? Order our ring sizer or use our quick guide
| US Size | Inner Diameter | Fits finger circumference |
|---|---|---|
| 3 | 14.1 mm | 44.2 mm |
| 3.5 | 14.5 mm | 45.5 mm |
| 4 | 14.9 mm | 46.8 mm |
| 4.5 | 15.3 mm | 48.0 mm |
| 5 | 15.7 mm | 49.3 mm |
💡 Tip: Wrap a thin strip of paper around your child's finger, mark where it overlaps, then measure that length in mm — that's their circumference. Kids' fingers are best measured mid-morning when they're not too warm or cold.
This product is not a health or medical device.
What is a fidget ring
What is a fidget ring
How does the abacus fidget ring work?
The beads subtly move up and down the ring and allows you to engage in repetitive fidgeting, providing a tactile and sensory outlet for anxiety or nervous energy.
How does the clicking fidget ring work?
You simply take off the ring and gently put pressure on either side of each ring.
Makes a slight clicking sound each time you press the ring sides.
The clicking ring is not adjustable and comes in sizes 7-12. If the ring is not suitable, simply purchase our exchange program for $15: gift the ring and we will send you the correct size.
How does the spinner anxiety ring work?
The ring can be worn on any finger and allows you to engage with the subtle vibration of the spin and watch as the pearl/stone/flower spins, providing a tactile and sensory outlet for anxiety or nervous energy.
Why are they called different things?
Anxiety rings, meditation rings, fidget rings, spinner rings, calming ring, spinning anxiety rings, spinning rings, mindful rings, calming rings, sensory rings, worry rings, wellness rings, anti-anxiety rings and spinner fidget rings - whatever they are names, they are designed to spin or move around subtly so that it helps to provide sensory input and used as a tool to deregulate and empower yourself.
The science & benefits of fidget rings
The science & benefits of fidget rings
Do fidget rings actually work?
Self-regulation is your ability to manage emotions and behaviours effectively. People with anxiety, ADHD, or autism usually have challenges with self-regulation. Fidget rings can be a practical way to reduce anxiety and stress levels by offering a controlled outlet for movement, to enable better emotional regulation and focus.
More about the neuroscience of anxiety and fidgeting.
These are some of the benefits of anxiety rings as noted by our customers:
- Increase focus and concentration
- Reduce anxiety and stress levels
- Improve sense of calm and balance
- Greater mindfulness
- Sensory tool to assist with stimming
- Feel calmer when anxiety starts
- Subtle way to fidget
- Helpful tool for those with stress, anxiety, ADHD
- Reduces skin picking habits, nail biting or hair pulling
Australian designed and quality materials
Australian designed and quality materials
Our designs and quality materials
Our Australian designed rings offer a subtle and elegant way to redirect anxious energy. Our rings are:
- Hypoallergenic
- Comes in one beautiful drawer box perfect for gifting
- Comes with luxury pouch for storage
- Innovative anti-tarnish protective coating
- Nickel free
- Copper free
- Chromium free
- Water resistant
Luxury fidget rings that are subtle, timeless and elegant. Designed, quality tested and shipped from Australia and owned by Australians.
The 925 sterling silver fidget rings are not made of cheap metals so you don’t need to worry about your fingers turning green or having skin reactions.
Sterling silver does not tarnish and is water resistant. All metals oxidise, when this happens, simply rub with a jewellery polishing cloth and it will be sparkle like new.
The sterling silver base means its strength will make it sturdier, less bendable which means it will last much longer than a cheaper base material such as copper, brass or surgical stainless steel.
We quality check each of our rings before shipping from Brisbane, Queensland.
How to adjust and size guide
How to adjust and size guide
Instructions on how to adjust your ring can be found here.
Secure payments
Secure payments
Cyber security and data breaches have affected so many of us. Our SSL certificate provides a secure website to protect your data when making payment transactions. We will never sell your data to a third party.
Afterpay, PayPal and Klarna are available forms of payment.
Warranties & refunds
Warranties & refunds
Refunds
If you change your mind within 30 days of receiving your order, we will refund your purchase once you send back your order in its original packaging.
Warranties
If your product is faulty, we will happily send out a replacement free of charge within 12 months.
For more information, please see our warranties and returns page.
Please note that quality of our jewellery is not covered for wear and tear or wear outside of the care instructions.
Customer support
Customer support
If you have an issue with your order, we will respond within one business day. We aim to respond to any questions or issues that may arise as soon as possible. However, we are a small business (with a young family) and cannot actually claim that we will provide 24/7 support.
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My daughter has anxiety so I bought her a set of your rings to wear before she starts high school. I love that your style of rings has kids sizes as I was looking for something subtle for her to fidget with and found your rings on google. Thank you so much - she loves them!
I forgot to click express post after my order and the team responded promptly to sort it out for me, including free express post so that my daughter would receive it in time for Christmas! Such a lovely gesture
I ordered this for my daughter on Monday and it arrived today! I am yet to give it to her (waiting until Christmas). She starts high school next year and has had a lot of anxiety so I wanted to get her something to help her with her ADHD and anxiety.
I saved a bit of money getting the three bundle of rings but thought why not give one to each of my girls (I’ve got 2) and give myself the third. I had a query about adjusting the size and the customer service was so quick and friendly