Subtly Anxious
Kids white gold plated on sterling silver abacus fidget ring
Kids white gold plated on sterling silver abacus fidget ring
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Subtly Anxious. Empower yourself. Embrace your thoughts.®
Can you afford to let your child's anxiety continue to disrupt their life? School refusal, sleepless nights, and headaches are more than just inconveniences; they're a significant loss of quality time and happiness. Our discreet fidget rings offer a gentle way to support your child in managing their anxiety, helping them regain focus and enjoy school and life more fully.
Imagine your child confidently going to school, sleeping soundly, and free from headaches. Our kids fidget rings offer a discreet way to help manage anxiety, leading to a happier, healthier, and more engaged child. Don't let anxiety rob your family of precious moments – empower your child today.
How does the kids fidget ring work?
We’re mindful that many schools don’t allow jewellery at school. Each ring comes with an anxiety card, to give to the school. Our specially designed rings aims to provide a sense of security and support to children during hard times. Empowering children to manage their emotions with confidence and comfort. They’re subtle enough to be able to wear to school.
Encourage your child to wear their fidget ring whenever they need to. Whether it's during school hours, social activities, or even bedtime routines, Subtly Anxious rings provide a comforting presence to support your child's emotional wellbeing.
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This product is not a health or medical device. If you are experiencing symptoms of anxiety that are impacting your day-to-day life, we strongly encourage you to consult with a healthcare professional for appropriate support and guidance.
What is a fidget ring
What is a fidget ring
How does the abacus fidget ring work?
The beads subtly move up and down the ring and allows you to engage in repetitive fidgeting, providing a tactile and sensory outlet for anxiety or nervous energy.
How does the clicking fidget ring work?
You simply take off the ring and gently put pressure on either side of each ring.
Makes a slight clicking sound each time you press the ring sides.
The clicking ring is not adjustable and comes in sizes 7-12. If the ring is not suitable, simply purchase our exchange program for $15: gift the ring and we will send you the correct size.
How does the spinner anxiety ring work?
The ring can be worn on any finger and allows you to engage with the subtle vibration of the spin and watch as the pearl/stone/flower spins, providing a tactile and sensory outlet for anxiety or nervous energy.
Why are they called different things?
Anxiety rings, meditation rings, fidget rings, spinner rings, calming ring, spinning anxiety rings, spinning rings, mindful rings, calming rings, sensory rings, worry rings, wellness rings, anti-anxiety rings and spinner fidget rings - whatever they are names, they are designed to spin or move around subtly so that it helps to provide sensory input and used as a tool to deregulate and empower yourself.
The science & benefits of fidget rings
The science & benefits of fidget rings
Do fidget rings actually work?
Self-regulation is your ability to manage emotions and behaviours effectively. People with anxiety, ADHD, or autism usually have challenges with self-regulation. Fidget rings can be a practical way to reduce anxiety and stress levels by offering a controlled outlet for movement, to enable better emotional regulation and focus.
These are some of the benefits of anxiety rings as noted by our customers:
- Increase focus and concentration
- Reduce anxiety and stress levels
- Improve sense of calm and balance
- Greater mindfulness
- Sensory tool to assist with stimming
- Feel calmer when anxiety starts
- Subtle way to fidget
- Helpful tool for those with stress, anxiety, ADHD
- Reduces skin picking habits, nail biting or hair pulling
Australian designed and quality materials
Australian designed and quality materials
Our designs and quality materials
Our Australian designed rings offer a subtle and elegant way to redirect anxious energy. Our rings are:
- Hypoallergenic
- Comes in one beautiful drawer box perfect for gifting
- Comes with luxury pouch for storage
- Innovative anti-tarnish protective coating
- Nickel free
- Copper free
- Chromium free
- Water resistant
Luxury fidget rings that are subtle, timeless and elegant. Designed, quality tested and shipped from Australia and owned by Australians.
The 925 sterling silver fidget rings are not made of cheap metals so you don’t need to worry about your fingers turning green or having skin reactions.
Sterling silver does not tarnish and is water resistant. All metals oxidise, when this happens, simply rub with a jewellery polishing cloth and it will be sparkle like new.
The sterling silver base means its strength will make it sturdier, less bendable which means it will last much longer than a cheaper base material such as copper, brass or surgical stainless steel.
We quality check each of our rings before shipping from Brisbane, Queensland.
How to adjust and size guide
How to adjust and size guide
Instructions on how to adjust your ring can be found here.
Free shipping and same day dispatch
Free shipping and same day dispatch
We aim to dispatch orders from the same day up to the following business day.
Free shipping on all orders within Australia.
Express shipping is $10 within Australia and free express shipping on orders over $120AUD.
International standard shipping from $10AUD and free standard shipping for orders over $120AUD.
Subtly Anxious accepts no responsibility for delays once your order has been dispatched to Australia Post. However, we will do our best to ensure your order is received by our third party, Australia Post.
Please ensure all your personal information is filled out correctly as we are unable to issue refunds for incorrect shipping addresses.
Our fidget rings Australia are shipped to customers all over the world including Sydney and Melbourne Australia United States, United Kingdom, Canada, New Zealand and Israel.
Secure payments
Secure payments
Cyber security and data breaches have affected so many of us. Our SSL certificate provides a secure website to protect your data when making payment transactions. We will never sell your data to a third party.
Afterpay, PayPal and Klarna are available forms of payment.
Consumer rights & refunds
Consumer rights & refunds
What does this mean if you purchase from Subtly Anxious?
If you are in Australia and purchase from us, you (the consumer) will have rights under the Australian Consumer Laws. Most products and services purchased in Australia come with automatic consumer guarantees that the product or service you purchased will work and do what you asked for.
Hundreds of our customers are from New Zealand, the United States and the United Kingdom and we will also honour our standards to our international customers.
Jewellery purchased in Australia must be of ‘acceptable quality’ when you buy it, including:
- fit for purpose
- look acceptable
- free from defects
- safe
- durable
You must also follow care instructions, as you would any other jewellery.
Please note that quality of our jewellery is not covered for wear and tear or wear outside of the care instructions.
Exchange Program
Exchange Program
Purchased one of our luxury rings but doesn't fit? Online shopping can be difficult which is why we have our Exchange Program. With a small fee, you get to keep the ring to gift to someone else and we will send you a new one!
Please email us at info@subtlyanxious.com.au for your correct size and we will dispatch it within 1 to 2 business days.
More details found here.
Customer support
Customer support
If you have an issue with your order, we will respond within one business day. We aim to respond to any questions or issues that may arise as soon as possible. However, we are a small business (with a young family) and cannot actually claim that we will provide 24/7 support.
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I think is too small. I have not given to my grand daughter yet. Let’s hope is not too small
Bought this for my teens birthday - she loves anything fidgety and has recently started wearing rings. She absolutely loves it! Really great quality too, definitely recommend