Subtly Anxious
JESSIE - clicking fidget ring for men and women
JESSIE - clicking fidget ring for men and women
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✅ 30-day no-questions refund
✅ 12-month warranty
✅ 4.9★ from 412 reviews
✅ Ships from Brisbane
Are you someone who constantly clicks your pen at work — so much so that no one wants to borrow any of your pens? Who cracks their knuckles every 20 minutes? Who’s been cracking the same fingers since you were 12 and can’t stop?
JESSIE gives your hands the click they’re looking for — without the looks.
A subtle pressing mechanism built into the ring. Take it off for a second. Press both sides gently. The click. Put it back on. Repeat whenever you need it.
Inspired by our 4 year old
“Our 4-year-old had a fidget cube he loved. I kept picking it up off his desk during my own anxious moments. That’s when I thought — why doesn’t this exist as a ring?”
— Anna, Subtly Anxious founder
📏 Not sure of your size? Quick guide
| US Size | Inner Diameter | Fits finger circumference |
|---|---|---|
| 6 | 16.5 mm | 51.9 mm |
| 7 | 17.3 mm | 54.4 mm |
| 8 | 18.2 mm | 57.2 mm |
| 9 | 19.0 mm | 59.7 mm |
| 10 | 19.8 mm | 62.2 mm |
| 11 | 20.6 mm | 64.7 mm |
| 12 | 21.4 mm | 67.2 mm |
💡 Tip: Use a strip of paper around your finger, mark where it overlaps, measure the length in mm — that's your circumference.
🔔 Get notified when your size is back
JESSIE restocks frequently. Drop your email and we'll notify you the moment your size is available.
JESSIE ships in a luxury drawer box — no extra wrapping needed. Perfect for a friend with anxiety, ADHD, or anyone who needs a little calm on their hands.
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What is a fidget ring
What is a fidget ring
How does the abacus fidget ring work?
The beads subtly move up and down the ring and allows you to engage in repetitive fidgeting, providing a tactile and sensory outlet for anxiety or nervous energy.
How does the clicking fidget ring work?
You simply take off the ring and gently put pressure on either side of each ring.
Makes a slight clicking sound each time you press the ring sides.
The clicking ring is not adjustable and comes in sizes 7-12. If the ring is not suitable, simply purchase our exchange program for $15: gift the ring and we will send you the correct size.
How does the spinner anxiety ring work?
The ring can be worn on any finger and allows you to engage with the subtle vibration of the spin and watch as the pearl/stone/flower spins, providing a tactile and sensory outlet for anxiety or nervous energy.
Why are they called different things?
Anxiety rings, meditation rings, fidget rings, spinner rings, calming ring, spinning anxiety rings, spinning rings, mindful rings, calming rings, sensory rings, worry rings, wellness rings, anti-anxiety rings and spinner fidget rings - whatever they are names, they are designed to spin or move around subtly so that it helps to provide sensory input and used as a tool to deregulate and empower yourself.
The science & benefits of fidget rings
The science & benefits of fidget rings
Do fidget rings actually work?
Self-regulation is your ability to manage emotions and behaviours effectively. People with anxiety, ADHD, or autism usually have challenges with self-regulation. Fidget rings can be a practical way to reduce anxiety and stress levels by offering a controlled outlet for movement, to enable better emotional regulation and focus.
More about the neuroscience of anxiety and fidgeting.
These are some of the benefits of anxiety rings as noted by our customers:
- Increase focus and concentration
- Reduce anxiety and stress levels
- Improve sense of calm and balance
- Greater mindfulness
- Sensory tool to assist with stimming
- Feel calmer when anxiety starts
- Subtle way to fidget
- Helpful tool for those with stress, anxiety, ADHD
- Reduces skin picking habits, nail biting or hair pulling
Australian designed and quality materials
Australian designed and quality materials
Our designs and quality materials
Our Australian designed rings offer a subtle and elegant way to redirect anxious energy. Our rings are:
- Hypoallergenic
- Comes in one beautiful drawer box perfect for gifting
- Comes with luxury pouch for storage
- Innovative anti-tarnish protective coating
- Nickel free
- Copper free
- Chromium free
- Water resistant
Luxury fidget rings that are subtle, timeless and elegant. Designed, quality tested and shipped from Australia and owned by Australians.
The 925 sterling silver fidget rings are not made of cheap metals so you don’t need to worry about your fingers turning green or having skin reactions.
Sterling silver does not tarnish and is water resistant. All metals oxidise, when this happens, simply rub with a jewellery polishing cloth and it will be sparkle like new.
The sterling silver base means its strength will make it sturdier, less bendable which means it will last much longer than a cheaper base material such as copper, brass or surgical stainless steel.
We quality check each of our rings before shipping from Brisbane, Queensland.
How to adjust and size guide
How to adjust and size guide
Instructions on how to adjust your ring can be found here.
Secure payments
Secure payments
Cyber security and data breaches have affected so many of us. Our SSL certificate provides a secure website to protect your data when making payment transactions. We will never sell your data to a third party.
Afterpay, PayPal and Klarna are available forms of payment.
Warranties & refunds
Warranties & refunds
Refunds
If you change your mind within 30 days of receiving your order, we will refund your purchase once you send back your order in its original packaging.
Warranties
If your product is faulty, we will happily send out a replacement free of charge within 12 months.
For more information, please see our warranties and returns page.
Please note that quality of our jewellery is not covered for wear and tear or wear outside of the care instructions.
Customer support
Customer support
If you have an issue with your order, we will respond within one business day. We aim to respond to any questions or issues that may arise as soon as possible. However, we are a small business (with a young family) and cannot actually claim that we will provide 24/7 support.
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This ring is a game changer for ADHDers who are constantly fidgeting. The design is so elegant - and it makes this clicking noise that is sooooo satisfying ☺️
I have discovered this brand and love it and I’m so grateful. I now have four fidget rings. They’re really helpful and stop me cracking my fingers.
The ring keeps my hands busy without being distracting. It feels solid and helps me manage nervous fidgeting during work and meetings. I wear it daily and barely notice I’m using it!
Wonderful product would like to see it in silver one day
Amazing product, I needed something for my ADHD constant fidgeting and the Subtly ring provide constant stimulus as well as help me with re-focus my thoughts back to my body, ie. fingers which helps greatly with my attentions. This has in turns winds down a lot of my anxiety as I now have something to link me back to my bodily sensation and back to the present. Anna and her team has done such a tremendous job here. I would have told all my neuro-divergent friends about this wonderful idea.. Many Thanks :-))