Subtly Anxious
MILLIE 18k gold plated on sterling silver abacus fidget ring
MILLIE 18k gold plated on sterling silver abacus fidget ring
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Subtly Anxious. Empower yourself with a stylish fidget ring for anxiety. Embrace your thoughts.®
Do you nervously fidget or bite your nails during highly stressful meetings at work? Can you afford to keep feeling overwhelmed, which causes headaches and sleepless nights? These luxury rings are crafted to be discreet and elegant, helping you manage emotions anytime and anywhere. They provide a subtle way to calm nerves and regain focus in tough moments.
The fidget ring comes in a default size 6 and is fully adjustable. It fits a wide range of finger sizes, from size 5 to size 10. This means you don’t need to know the exact ring size when gifting it. It's a thoughtful and practical gift for friends and family who struggle with nervous energy or stress.
Afterpay and Klarna are now available for easy, interest-free payments. This lets you spread out the cost of your purchase conveniently.
This product is not a health or medical device. If you have symptoms that impact your daily life, we strongly encourage consulting a healthcare professional. Getting proper support will help you manage symptoms effectively alongside using our rings.
Why Choose Our Adjustable Fidget Ring for Anxiety?
Our fidget ring blends luxury and practicality. It is crafted to subtly support your wellbeing while complementing your style. You can wear it throughout the day at work, home, or social events without drawing unwanted attention. The smooth beads allow discrete fidgeting that can relieve tension and nervous habits.
Thanks to its adjustable design, this ring fits most finger sizes comfortably. You no longer need to guess someone’s ring size or worry about returns. The ring can be resized to suit your finger from sizes 5 to 10 within seconds, making it extremely versatile and user-friendly.
How Does the Ring Work?
The fidget ring features several small beads that slide gently along the band. This subtle motion helps channel nervous energy into a calming sensory activity. By touching and moving the beads, you promote concentration and mindfulness during high-pressure moments.
This simple sensory input is proven to assist people dealing with anxiety, ADHD, and stress. Using the ring can reduce nail-biting, skin picking, or other repetitive behaviors linked to nervousness. It offers an elegant solution to help manage these habits discreetly.
Key Features of the Fidget Ring
- Adjustable sizing from size 5 to size 10 for a perfect fit.
- Made with high-quality materials that provide durability and comfort.
- Elegant design suitable for everyday wear and formal occasions.
- Discreet fidget function to calm nerves and improve focus.
- Hypoallergenic for sensitive skin.
- Comes in a beautiful gift box, perfect for presenting to loved ones.
How to Use Your Fidget Ring for Anxiety
Simply slide the beads up and down the ring with your finger. This repetitive movement offers a tactile outlet for nervous energy. The act of fidgeting can redirect your focus and prevent distress from escalating.
You can wear it on any finger, adjusting the size to your comfort. Whether in a meeting or while traveling, the ring stays subtle yet effective in providing calm moments.
Perfect Gift Idea
The adjustable fidget ring for anxiety makes an excellent gift for anyone facing stress or anxious feelings. Because it fits a range of sizes, you don’t need to know the recipient's exact ring size. This versatility makes gift-giving easier and more thoughtful without the hassle of returns.
Along with its calming benefits, the ring’s luxurious look ensures it will be worn gladly. It comes beautifully packaged in a drawer box, ready to delight your loved one.
Payment and Purchase Information
We offer Afterpay and Klarna as payment methods, allowing you to buy now and pay later in interest-free installments. This flexible option helps you manage your budget without delay.
Shipping costs are calculated at checkout, and express options are available for faster delivery.
Important Health Reminder
While our fidget ring for anxiety supports wellbeing, it is not a medical device. If anxiety affects your daily functioning, please seek professional medical advice. Combining medical support with fidget tools can provide balanced and confident management of symptoms.
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What is a fidget ring
What is a fidget ring
How does the abacus fidget ring work?
The beads subtly move up and down the ring and allows you to engage in repetitive fidgeting, providing a tactile and sensory outlet for anxiety or nervous energy.
How does the clicking fidget ring work?
You simply take off the ring and gently put pressure on either side of each ring.
Makes a slight clicking sound each time you press the ring sides.
The clicking ring is not adjustable and comes in sizes 7-12. If the ring is not suitable, simply purchase our exchange program for $15: gift the ring and we will send you the correct size.
How does the spinner anxiety ring work?
The ring can be worn on any finger and allows you to engage with the subtle vibration of the spin and watch as the pearl/stone/flower spins, providing a tactile and sensory outlet for anxiety or nervous energy.
Why are they called different things?
Anxiety rings, meditation rings, fidget rings, spinner rings, calming ring, spinning anxiety rings, spinning rings, mindful rings, calming rings, sensory rings, worry rings, wellness rings, anti-anxiety rings and spinner fidget rings - whatever they are names, they are designed to spin or move around subtly so that it helps to provide sensory input and used as a tool to deregulate and empower yourself.
The science & benefits of fidget rings
The science & benefits of fidget rings
Do fidget rings actually work?
Self-regulation is your ability to manage emotions and behaviours effectively. People with anxiety, ADHD, or autism usually have challenges with self-regulation. Fidget rings can be a practical way to reduce anxiety and stress levels by offering a controlled outlet for movement, to enable better emotional regulation and focus.
More about the neuroscience of anxiety and fidgeting.
These are some of the benefits of anxiety rings as noted by our customers:
- Increase focus and concentration
- Reduce anxiety and stress levels
- Improve sense of calm and balance
- Greater mindfulness
- Sensory tool to assist with stimming
- Feel calmer when anxiety starts
- Subtle way to fidget
- Helpful tool for those with stress, anxiety, ADHD
- Reduces skin picking habits, nail biting or hair pulling
Australian designed and quality materials
Australian designed and quality materials
Our designs and quality materials
Our Australian designed rings offer a subtle and elegant way to redirect anxious energy. Our rings are:
- Hypoallergenic
- Comes in one beautiful drawer box perfect for gifting
- Comes with luxury pouch for storage
- Innovative anti-tarnish protective coating
- Nickel free
- Copper free
- Chromium free
- Water resistant
Luxury fidget rings that are subtle, timeless and elegant. Designed, quality tested and shipped from Australia and owned by Australians.
The 925 sterling silver fidget rings are not made of cheap metals so you don’t need to worry about your fingers turning green or having skin reactions.
Sterling silver does not tarnish and is water resistant. All metals oxidise, when this happens, simply rub with a jewellery polishing cloth and it will be sparkle like new.
The sterling silver base means its strength will make it sturdier, less bendable which means it will last much longer than a cheaper base material such as copper, brass or surgical stainless steel.
We quality check each of our rings before shipping from Brisbane, Queensland.
How to adjust and size guide
How to adjust and size guide
Instructions on how to adjust your ring can be found here.
Christmas cut off & free express shipping
Christmas cut off & free express shipping
Christmas cut offs dates are available here.
FREE express shipping on all orders over $50 within Australia.
Subtly Anxious accepts no responsibility for delays once your order has been dispatched to Australia Post. However, we will do our best to ensure your order is received by our third party, Australia Post.
Please ensure all your personal information is filled out correctly as we are unable to issue refunds for incorrect shipping addresses.
Our fidget rings Australia are shipped to customers all over the world including Sydney and Melbourne Australia United States, United Kingdom, Canada, New Zealand and Israel.
Secure payments
Secure payments
Cyber security and data breaches have affected so many of us. Our SSL certificate provides a secure website to protect your data when making payment transactions. We will never sell your data to a third party.
Afterpay, PayPal and Klarna are available forms of payment.
Warranties & refunds
Warranties & refunds
Refunds
If you change your mind within 30 days of receiving your order, we will refund your purchase once you send back your order in its original packaging.
Warranties
If your product is faulty, we will happily send out a replacement free of charge within 12 months.
For more information, please see our warranties and returns page.
Please note that quality of our jewellery is not covered for wear and tear or wear outside of the care instructions.
Exchange Program
Exchange Program
Purchased one of our luxury rings but doesn't fit? Online shopping can be difficult which is why we have our Exchange Program. With a small fee, you get to keep the ring to gift to someone else and we will send you a new one!
Please email us at info@subtlyanxious.com.au for your correct size and we will dispatch it within 1 to 2 business days.
More details found here.
Customer support
Customer support
If you have an issue with your order, we will respond within one business day. We aim to respond to any questions or issues that may arise as soon as possible. However, we are a small business (with a young family) and cannot actually claim that we will provide 24/7 support.
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I bought this ring a year ago and it has lasted and not tarnished like the cheaper anxiety rings I’ve bought in the past. It’s really helped me with my skin picking and it is so subtle I can wear it everyday
Love this piece, simple and light weight perfect for every day wear.
I purchased two of these rings plus two of the silver kids ones and was given a gift with purchase of a pair of beautiful pearl earrings which are so soft and beautiful.
We use our rings daily and they stop me from skin picking when extremely anxious.
Absolutely love them and the owner is a wonderfully kind person.
Daughter loves the concept and said the ring is very helpful with her fidgeting when she is anxious however the gold ring is now silver.
I love it for fidgeting and it's malleable to all sizes. The gold did wear off the band within 2 weeks, and is starting to wear a little on the beads after 3 weeks.