Trusted by thousands of women, kids and professionals for discreet fidgeting anywhere, anytime for calmer days, and increased focus.
Your path to calm starts here. Fidgeting isn't just a habit - it's backed by neuroscience to reduce stress and anxiety.
- Fidgeting helps to manage and regulate ADHD symptoms and anxiety.
- Science-backed benefits of fidgeting: boosts dopamine, sharpens focus and reduces overwhelm via brain’s prefrontal cortex activation.
- Children are given fidgets as tools to regulate their ADHD symptoms and anxiety.
- What happens when they become adults? Those tools are taken away then as adults, our anxiety manifests in other ways to cope.
- Our fidget rings are uniquely designed tools to manage anxiety and can be worn with any outfit.
Best Sellers
Join thousands of customers taking charge of their anxiety to experience firsthand why our products keep selling out!
- Unmatched Quality: we have a 12 month warranty on all of our products
- Elegant Designs: Unique designs are discreet so you can fidget whenever you feel anxious
- Satisfaction Guaranteed: 30 day refund - no questions asked
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*Low stock* ELENA 18k gold plated pearl fidget spinner ring
5.0 / 5.0
(37) 37 total reviews
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*Best seller* ELENA - white gold pearl fidget spinner ring
4.89 / 5.0
(27) 27 total reviews
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*Low stock* JESSIE - clicking fidget ring for men and women
4.9 / 5.0
(10) 10 total reviews
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*Low stock* MILLIE white gold plated on sterling silver abacus fidget ring
5.0 / 5.0
(21) 21 total reviews
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MILLIE - Kids white gold plated on sterling silver abacus fidget ring
4.5 / 5.0
(4) 4 total reviews
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*Low stock* Oversized cultured freshwater pearl button stud earrings s925 sterling silver backing
5.0 / 5.0
(3) 3 total reviews
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*Low stock* ANNABELLE white gold plated opal fidget spinner ring
5.0 / 5.0
(15) 15 total reviews
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*Low stock* REMMIE - 18k gold plated s925 sterling silver fidget spinner ring
4.7 / 5.0
(27) 27 total reviews
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CHRISTINA - Autism advocate ring: 18k gold plated on sterling silver adjustable
4.6 / 5.0
(5) 5 total reviews
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Cultured freshwater pearl stud earrings with s925 sterling silver backing
5.0 / 5.0
(2) 2 total reviews
Regular price $34.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price / per$49.95 AUDSale price $34.95 AUDSale
Let customers speak for us
from 404 reviewsWonderful product would like to see it in silver one day
This is my third order, I had initially gotten these for my 5 year old ADHDer when he gets anxious and picks at his skin, but I love these rings too, it was so nice that they gave me a free one with my order. I have ordered another set for myself.
These are the most beautiful and elegant rings from this shop. My third order since they opened 3 years ago and I get so many comments on how stunning my rings are. Please bring out more men's designs for hubby as he is an ADHD skin picker and fidgeter too.
Hoping my nails will be saved from my constant picking! Very happy with my purchase :)
Beautiful brought for our daughter to help her concentrate , as she finishes school
Very happy excellent transaction will be back for future presents
Thanks
Beautiful rings which really bring, calm, focus & peace
So fun to fidget with!
My daughter loves her spinner rings . The rings are perfect to help calm her at school in class without distraction.
The customer service was awesome. The rings for some unknown reason broke (it’s never happened before) and a quick message and the rings were replaced.
My daughter loves the abacus style. At first it looked too small but it is adjustable so it fits perfectly. Other cheap rings we’ve purchased online look tacky and bulky and these ones are perfect 🥰
My daughter loves it. My 9 year old gets anxious, so I got her this ring (and ones for me) and she loves it! Please bring out more kids sizes in other designs!
My 9 year old picks at her skin, so I got her this ring (and ones for me) and she loves it! Please bring out more kids sizes in other designs!
My daughter's friends loved the ring I bought my daughter so we got one for each of them for their birthdays this year. Such a lovely gift idea with the adjustable size. I've told so many friends about your local business! Our orders arrived the day after ordering - so quick!
The rings are adjustable so you don’t need to find out their size. If they’re a highly anxious person, no doubt they’ll be using these rings everyday. My VIP is highly anxious and picks at her skin all the time. She loves the rings and has said it helps her feel less anxious when wearing them
I bite my nails especially when I’m stressed. Since I started wearing these rings, I’ve noticed a drastic change. I wasn't sure about the sizing for the clicking ring but the exchange program meant that I could give the one that fit away and got a new one posted for only $15. I haven’t bitten my nails since wearing them! It's been amazing for my self-confidence.
These rings have helped me so much to work on not picking at the skin around my fingers. Paired with constantly moisturing my cuticles and painting my nails, and a cute as heck ring, I'm starting to not feel so insecure about how unsightly my fingers have been my whole life.
Customer service is amazing - one ring unfortunately broke prematurely and they offered to replace my ring free of charge and no delivery.
The gold does tarnish, depending on sweat, handwashing, and lotion use, but this can be avoided, or embraced as having a new silver ring instead. I've gotten lots of compliments on how stylish and cute they are, totally recommend!
Christmas Bundles
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3 Piece Bundle: Mum daughter fidget ring- white gold plated collection
5.0 / 5.0
(4) 4 total reviews
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2 Piece bundle: 18k gold plated - MILLIE abacus fidget ring and ELENA pearl spinner ring
4.5 / 5.0
(8) 8 total reviews
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2 Piece Bundle: JESSIE clicking fidget ring and REMMIE white gold spinning flower ring
5.0 / 5.0
(2) 2 total reviews
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2 Piece Bundle: REMMIE - white flower and ELENA - pearl spinner adjustable 18k gold plated rings
5.0 / 5.0
(3) 3 total reviews
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3 Piece Bundle: Mum daughter fidget ring set - 18k GOLD plated REMMIE, MILLIE and MILLIE (kids)
5.0 / 5.0
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Rose gold fidget bundle: ELENA pearl spinner ring and MILLIE abacus fidget ring
5.0 / 5.0
(4) 4 total reviews
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3 Piece Bundle: MILLIE white gold plated on sterling silver abacus fidget ring
5.0 / 5.0
(2) 2 total reviews
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3 Piece Bundle: White gold REMMIE - flower spinner fidget ring, ELENA pearl spinner fidget ring and MILLIE fidget ring
5.0 / 5.0
(13) 13 total reviews
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3 Piece Bundle: MILLIE solid 925 sterling silver abacus fidget rings
5.0 / 5.0
(10) 10 total reviews
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3 Piece Bundle - MILLIE 18k gold plated on sterling silver abacus fidget rings
4.92 / 5.0
(12) 12 total reviews
Regular price $139.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price / per$149.85 AUDSale price $139.95 AUDSale
Kids size collection
Imagine your child confidently going to school, sleeping soundly, and free from headaches. Our new kids fidget ring offers a discreet way to help manage anxiety, leading to a happier, healthier, and more engaged child. Don't let anxiety rob your family of precious moments – empower your child today.
Benefits of the Kids Fidget Ring
The kids fidget ring is designed to provide comfort and aid in reducing anxious feelings. Wearing this small yet effective piece allows children to channel their nervous energy. Many parents find that it supports their children’s focus during classroom activities and calms their minds before bedtime. This ring is an ideal tool especially for any child who experiences stress or tension on a daily basis.
Designed for Comfort and Style
Our kids size fidget rings range from size 3 to 4, perfect for younger children or anyone searching for smaller sizes. Each ring is crafted with attention to detail using 18k gold or white gold S925 plating. These options provide durability alongside elegance, making the rings suitable for constant wear. The discreet look means your child can wear it anywhere without drawing unwanted attention, making this fidget ring an effective aid when they need it most.
Helping Children with Anxiety and Autism
Fidget rings serve as simple but powerful tools to help children live more comfortably with anxiety. These calming accessories can be particularly useful for children with autism, helping them regulate overwhelming feelings. By wearing a kids fidget ring, children gain a tangible object to shift focus and bring relief. This approach builds confidence and promotes restful sleep, preventing anxiety from interfering with daily activities.
Why Choose Our Kids Fidget Ring?
Our product’s uniqueness lies in its balance of functionality and design. Beyond its therapeutic effects, our kids fidget ring is a beautiful piece that kids enjoy wearing. Its lightweight feel and smooth edges prevent discomfort during use, making it suitable for all-day wear. Ideal for both boys and girls, these rings encourage children to stay calm during stressful moments such as tests or social events. The ring is more than just a toy; it is a helpful companion that supports emotional well-being.
Durability and Quality You Can Trust
We use only premium materials for our kids fidget ring range. The 18k gold or white gold S925 plating ensures longevity and resistance against daily wear and tear. This quality craftsmanship means your child’s ring will last through numerous challenges and remains a trusty tool. Additionally, each ring undergoes inspection to guarantee it meets strict quality standards, making sure it is safe and comfortable for all children to wear.
Our kids size fidget rings range are perfect for our little ones or anyone who are looking for smaller sizes between ring size 3 to 4. We have a range of 18k gold or white gold S925 plating.
Supporting Families and Enhancing Moments
Choosing a kids fidget ring means choosing a pathway to calmer days. Families notice improvements when their children use this discreet tool to fight feelings of anxiousness or restlessness. It strengthens emotional resilience and offers a healthier way to self-soothe. This ring supports not only children struggling with anxiety but also those who wish to maintain focus and composure. By bringing this item into your child’s life, you gift them a positive coping method that honors their needs.
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MILLIE - Kids 18k gold plated on sterling silver abacus fidget ring - adjustable
4.85 / 5.0
(20) 20 total reviews
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EMMA Kids size roller fidget ring 18k gold plated on sterling silver - adjustable
5.0 / 5.0
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MILLIE - Kids white gold plated on sterling silver abacus fidget ring
4.5 / 5.0
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EMMA - Kids roller fidget ring in white gold plated on sterling silver - adjustable
5.0 / 5.0
(2) 2 total reviews
Regular price $54.95 AUDRegular priceUnit price / perSale price $54.95 AUD
Subtly Anxious. Empower yourself. Embrace your thoughts.®
Why Subtly Anxious?
Navigating the world with conditions like anxiety, ADHD, or OCD can feel overwhelming, especially for those who grew up without a diagnosis. Many women, in particular, have been misdiagnosed or only realised the true nature of their experiences later in life. The lack of studies focusing on ADHD and autism in females until recently has left many silently struggling, yet adeptly masking their symptoms.
At Subtly Anxious, we understand that the journey toward self-awareness and acceptance can be both empowering and challenging. Our mission is to help you transform these challenges into strengths. We are seeing an evolving landscape where more women are receiving accurate diagnoses and gaining deeper insights into their own mental health. This increased awareness is vital, and we believe in equipping you with the means to thrive.
Our Unique Approach:
Subtly Anxious is not just our brand; it's part of our mission towards self-empowerment. Our anxiety rings are crafted to be more than just beautiful accessories. They provide a discreet means of sensory processing, helping you harness your inner strength whenever anxiety strikes.
Mindful Design: Each ring features a subtle spinning vibration or fidget beads, specifically designed to provide a calming effect and stress relief through gentle, tactile engagement.
Embrace Your Thoughts: Our philosophy encourages you not to suppress anxious feelings but to acknowledge and embrace them as part of your journey.
Elegance Meets Anxiety: Our rings are designed to be elegant yet functional, allowing you to discreetly channel and manage your thoughts while wearing a stylish piece that complements your personal style.
The Subtly Anxious Assurance:
Everyone deserves to feel at their best, and our pieces are crafted with this in mind. Our rings offer more than just aesthetic appeal; they empower you to understand and embrace your thoughts, fostering a greater sense of control and peace in your day-to-day life.
We will refund you within 30 days if you are not happy with our product.
Join our community of like-minded individuals who are learning to live authentically, accept themselves wholly, and embrace every thought, anxious or otherwise. Discover how Subtly Anxious can be a small but powerful step on your path to self-empowerment and improved mental well-being journey.
Empower Yourself. Embrace Your Thoughts.®
Anti tarnish and water resistant sterling silver
We are the only Australian online stockist of only 925 sterling silver base anxiety jewellery - which means lasting quality, does not tarnish and is water resistant.
7 reasons to choose 925 Sterling silver
1. Durability: Sterling silver is known for its robustness and durability. It is less prone to scratches and damage compared to costume jewellery (made of copper or brass). Sterling silver can last for generations if properly maintained.
2. Hypoallergenic: For those with sensitive skin or allergies, sterling silver is a safe choice. It is less likely to trigger skin reactions compared to lower-quality metals often found in cheaper brass and copper jewellery.
3. Affordability: Sterling silver offers high-quality jewellery at a more affordable price point compared to solid gold. It allows you to own a precious metal piece without breaking your budget.
4. Versatility: Sterling silver has a neutral shade that matches well with most outfits and other pieces of jewellery. It can be worn for both casual and formal occasions, unlike solid gold which is often limited to formal events.
5. Maintainability: While sterling silver does tarnish over time, it is simple to clean and restore its original shine using readily available silver cleaning solutions or a polishing cloth. Costume jewellery, on the other hand, tends to lose its shine and look worn-out over time and you need to throw it out.
6. Wide Variety: Sterling silver jewellery allows us to design a wide range of styles, giving you a broader choice range. You can easily find a piece that expresses your personal style compared to the often more traditional and limited designs in solid gold.
7. Value: Lastly, sterling silver still holds considerable value, unlike costume jewelry which generally has no resale value. It doesn't match solid gold's value but is still a precious metal you can consider as an investment.
Always check the materials when purchasing jewellery online - if it doesn’t state what materials the jewellery is made of, it’s likely to be copper or brass (usually costume jewellery that will rust and tarnish).
Unlike other cheaper rings (anxiety rings, worry rings, fidget rings, meditation rings, or spinner rings) in the online market, Subtly Anxious® rings are crafted from high quality 18k gold, white gold and rose gold plated all on s925 sterling silver (many anxiety rings are plated in gold and nickel-free and chromium-free, but made of copper or stainless steel).
All of our anxiety rings are hypoallergenic and water-resistant so won’t cause skin reactions for those with sensitive skin.
Elegance does not mean bling and flashy. Elegance means high quality and lasting. This is why all of our rings have a base metal of 925 sterling silver.
When purchasing jewellery online, always check and see the material of the base metal. If it doesn’t tell you, it’s probably copper, brass or steel.
Our ring designs are curated or designed to incorporate elegance and timeless pieces - you won’t see some of our designs anywhere else because they are unique. That is until Temu tries to copy us (again!).
Our mission
Subtly Anxious® is an Australian owned small business where our mission started by raising awareness about mental health and wellbeing and enlighten, empower, and support individuals touched by anxiety, autism, ADHD and OCD - whether officially diagnosed or not.
Our commitment
We are committed to fostering an inclusive society where awareness and compassion need to come together, and nurturing a community equipped with strategies and tools for mental wellbeing. We strive to create conversations and connections that enable resilience and understanding, ensuring that every person feels valued and supported in their journey towards embracing and managing their mental health.
The more awareness we raise, the more we are able to increase our understanding to recover, put strategies and tools in place to empower and embrace and reduce the stigma associated with mental health.
Social impact
During our first year, we raised $850 to Beyond Blue’s big blue table. Beyond Blue helped us and others in similar circumstances in so many ways.
This year, we gifted $2000 worth of Sakura anxiety rings to the Salvation Army to the mental health unit, for young people at risk of homelessness and mental health issues for their Christmas event.
We have also donated to our local community Kindergarten’s fundraising efforts.
After our son’s autism diagnosis, we saw the underwhelming amount of freely available resources for neurodivergent families, so we’ve made it our mission to create freely available resources for neurodivergent families.
As we continue to learn more in our journey, our aim as autism advocates is to ensure autism spectrum disorder is not only understood better in the early years but to also advocate for better inclusion and accommodations for autism and ADHD.
The more we advocate about this issue, the more we are able to increase the understanding of others, which in turn may mean better supports and accommodations.
You can access our resources here https://subtlyanxious.com.au/pages/anxiety-resources
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